July, 2011 Archives

20
Jul

Dealing With a Wife Who Has No Desire for Sex

by admin in Exploring Swinging, Spicing up a Relationship

Comments Off Comments

It can be really disheartening to deal with a wife that has no desire for sex. You want to be able to express your love for each other on a physical level and it is a basic urge that everybody has. However, if your wife is not a person that is interested in sex, then there are a few different things that you can do to try to remedy this.

Try New Things

You may find that she is not interested in sex simply because she is not enjoying it. It may be a good idea for you and her to attend a sex work shop or try some new things in the bedroom to try to get her interested again. See what her deepest fantasy is and act it out with her. If she does not have any fantasies to speak of, then try to make one up with her to get her back in the mood.

When It Is Not Working

When it has gotten to a point where it is just not working, then it may be time to hang it up. Even if you love your wife and enjoy every other aspect with her, sex is something that is a very important part of the relationship. If she is not willing to come together with you and work on it, then it may be time to divorce before you cheat on her.

Other Alternatives

Some couples have situations where the spouse that is still interested in sex is allowed to go out and have sex with other people as long as that is all that it is. Swinging for one of the spouses is very popular in these situations.